Sunday, August 7, 2011

Having Your Cake and Eating It Too

I wrote this as a guest post for Peanut Butter Fingers a few weeks ago, and it seemed to get a good response. I’m a strong believer that there’s room for even the “unhealthiest” of treats in any diet and exercise plan. I can’t go through a day without having something sweet, whether it’s just some dark chocolate or a decadent hunk of cake with gobs of buttercream frosting. Sometimes, though, it takes a little compromise and planning to enjoy my daily desserts without the sugar rush- so here are my five tips for having your cake and eating it too!


1. Pick what’s “worth it” to you.
             Prepackaged foods taste good. There may be a few “junk foods” you abhor, but for the most part we all enjoy the taste of M&Ms and potato chips. Depriving yourself of these things completely is not only unrealistic, it’s just plain silly! The key is figuring out which foods you really love, and which you just like. For instance, I love me some cupcakes or candy, but I find it easier to pass up the salty snacks and dips. So, whenever I’m in a situation in which both these food groups are available, I’ll choose something healthier in place of the chips- like crudités and hummus or mixed nuts- and go all out on dessert.


2. Learn to make your favorite foods at home.
            If you love cookies or nachos, why not try making them in your own kitchen? Making your own treats not only saves money, but it also allows you to control exactly what goes into them. Search the internet for some recipes, try a few out, and determine which measures up to your expectations. Try using some healthy substitutes, like whole grains instead of refined flours or natural sweeteners instead of white sugar. It’s a great way to get creative, improve your cooking skills and satisfy your cravings! 


3. Listen to your body.
            I still struggle with this personally sometimes, but I do strive to listen to my body and what it’s telling me whenever I sit down to a meal or snack. Sometimes it’s hard not to eat an entire slice of cake if it’s sitting in front of you (I’ve definitely done it!), but remember that there are no prizes awarded for joining the clean plate club- unless you count a stomachache as a prize. Conversely, if you’re genuinely hungry for something, don’t feel guilty finishing it. Deprivation only leads to overeating in the long run. Which brings me to my next point…


4. Have something small every day
            One of my biggest secrets to maintaining a healthy diet is to make sure it’s not too healthy.  By allowing myself a treat or two per day, I know I can always have the things I’m craving.  Personally, I always go for a serving of dark chocolate alongside some fruit for dessert! A healthy lifestyle isn’t all or nothing- it’s about balance. We’ve all heard that a thousand times, but it’s true: integrating little indulgences into every day life reminds us that there are no inherently “good” or “bad” foods. It’s the big picture that counts!


5. Have no fear.
            There will always be occasions where you eat until you’re stuffed- for me, it’s any time there’s a dessert buffet. But feeling guilty after overeating gets you nowhere. Instead, handle the situation in a positive way.  Go for a walk after dinner. Eat a big salad for lunch the next day. Stop letting what you eat have power over your emotions. The only way you can truly “have your cake and eat it too” is to learn to enjoy what you’re eating- whether it be chocolate or carrots!

What are your tips for "having your cake and eating it too?" And what's your proverbial "cake"- the not-so-healthy food you can't live without?